See the similarities between the Sean Goldman kidnapping to Brazil and the Christopher and William Ko kidnapping to Singapore on Dateline NBC May9 2011
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21134540/vp/42956156#42956156
1) The father David Goldman was denied visitation with his son repeatedly. Yuxin Mei Wang denied visitation 5 times.
2) Sean's mother and her family poisoned Sean to hurt David.
3) After the return of Sean, legal actions continue without regard to the welfare and best interests of the child.
A new twist, Yuxin Mei Wang is now trying to get her US Permanent Residency back. She would not have lost her US PR if she did not kidnap the boys in the first place.
Monday, 9 May 2011
Sunday, 1 May 2011
Why Did Yuxin Mei Wang Kidnap Her Children?
According to Dr. Dierdre C. Rand, there could be a few reasons. She wrote in her paper titled "The Spectrum of Parental Alienation" published in the American Journal of Forensic Psychology, Volume 15, Number 1, 1997:
1) "Need to Conceal Parental Deficits." "...the campaign to alienate the child from the other parent is sometimes used to deflect unwanted scrutiny of the programming parent's personal problems.... Sometimes parents engage in PAS (Parental Alienation Syndrome) behavior out of fear that they will be found wanting when compared to the more loving and capable target."
2) Parental Child Abductors. "An abducting parent views the child's needs as secondary to the parental agenda which is to provoke, agitate, control, attack or psychologically torture the other parent. It should come as not suprise, then, that post-divorce parental abduction is considered a serious form of child abuse."
3) "Need for Control and Domination." Some alienating parents are driven by overriding needs for power, influence, dominatoin and control. Engaging in PAS may provide the dual gratification of maintaining power, influence, and control over the child and vicariously over the ex-spouse whose visitation and relationship with the child is frustrated by the alienating parent's control maneuvers."
4) Personality Characteristics of Parents Making False Accusations of Abuse in Disputes. Mothers tend to present as "fearful victim," "justified vindicator...." "The fearful victim presenation involves manipulation of social image around a specific theme to which others respond with sympathy and support, such as child abuse or spousal abuse."
This is certainly true. Her entire family believed the abuse story. So did the teachers at Sembawang Primary School.
"When abuse is alleged, anyone in a position of authority can act as a "validator," including therapists, police, child protecton workers, ....Validators are professionsls who, when presented with allegations of abuse, assume that abuse occured. They see their role as validating the alleged abuse rather than conducting an objective investigation." This is a good description of the dumbo-heads at the Los Angeles County Department of Children and Family Services. They had to re-investigate and paid me over US$3200 for damages for their error. I guess teachers and journalists are not far behind.
"Validators are relatively easy to find, especially when sought out by a parent seeking to strengthen their position in legal proceedings." And to gain sympathy.
5) The Delusional Parent. The children were subject to undue influence to get them to accept the accusing parent's psychotic belief and concomitant rejection of the other parent....
1) "Need to Conceal Parental Deficits." "...the campaign to alienate the child from the other parent is sometimes used to deflect unwanted scrutiny of the programming parent's personal problems.... Sometimes parents engage in PAS (Parental Alienation Syndrome) behavior out of fear that they will be found wanting when compared to the more loving and capable target."
2) Parental Child Abductors. "An abducting parent views the child's needs as secondary to the parental agenda which is to provoke, agitate, control, attack or psychologically torture the other parent. It should come as not suprise, then, that post-divorce parental abduction is considered a serious form of child abuse."
3) "Need for Control and Domination." Some alienating parents are driven by overriding needs for power, influence, dominatoin and control. Engaging in PAS may provide the dual gratification of maintaining power, influence, and control over the child and vicariously over the ex-spouse whose visitation and relationship with the child is frustrated by the alienating parent's control maneuvers."
4) Personality Characteristics of Parents Making False Accusations of Abuse in Disputes. Mothers tend to present as "fearful victim," "justified vindicator...." "The fearful victim presenation involves manipulation of social image around a specific theme to which others respond with sympathy and support, such as child abuse or spousal abuse."
This is certainly true. Her entire family believed the abuse story. So did the teachers at Sembawang Primary School.
"When abuse is alleged, anyone in a position of authority can act as a "validator," including therapists, police, child protecton workers, ....Validators are professionsls who, when presented with allegations of abuse, assume that abuse occured. They see their role as validating the alleged abuse rather than conducting an objective investigation." This is a good description of the dumbo-heads at the Los Angeles County Department of Children and Family Services. They had to re-investigate and paid me over US$3200 for damages for their error. I guess teachers and journalists are not far behind.
"Validators are relatively easy to find, especially when sought out by a parent seeking to strengthen their position in legal proceedings." And to gain sympathy.
5) The Delusional Parent. The children were subject to undue influence to get them to accept the accusing parent's psychotic belief and concomitant rejection of the other parent....
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